A guardian ad litem(also known as a “GAL”) is “an attorney for the parties' child(ren).
The fact is, under Virginia child custody law, there is no “magic age” at which the child gets to make the decision as to which parent will have custody of him or her. In fact, the child does not make the decision on his or her own custody at any age under Virginia child custody law.
The legal definition of an unfit parent is when the parent through their conduct fails to provide proper guidance, care, or support. Also, if there is abuse, neglect, or substance abuse issues, that parent will be deemed unfit.
This is, under Virginia Code, joint custody. The law, within § 20-124.2, recognizes three types of court-ordered custody, which would also be the default custody without a court order: Joint legal custody — Both parents have the legal right to determine medical, educational and religious decisions for the child.
In determining custody, the court shall give primary consideration to the best interests of the child. The court shall consider and may award joint legal, joint physical, or sole custody, and there shall be no presumption in favor of any form of custody.
In law, there is no fixed age that determines when a child can express a preference as to where they want to live. However, legally, a child cannot decide who they want to live with until they are 16 years old. Once a child reaches the age of 16, they are legally allowed to choose which parent to live with.
If your child is refusing visitation with your co-parent due to a reason that directly concerns their safety, bring this to the attention of your attorney or other legal professionals immediately. If the reason does not directly impact their safety or well-being, your child should attend visitations.
Limiting or denying visitation Visitation can be limited, suspended, or even denied to a noncustodial parent if one of the following reasons exist: Emotional harm. The wishes of the child. Violence or physical endangerment.