what questions should you ask before hiring an attorney: a mediator's perspective by justin kelsey

by Prof. Therese Parisian 9 min read

What kind of questions do they ask in mediation?

Some of the questions that a mediator ought to ask counsel for the parties during the mediation include the following. What are your/your client's goals for this mediation? What would help you achieve your goals? What are the obstacles to resolving the dispute?

What should I do to prepare for mediation?

Tips from a Mediator about how to prepare for the Mediation of your disputeIdentify your key interests in the dispute. ... Be ready to make the first offer. ... Reality check your case. ... Obtain an estimate of the costs of litigation. ... Say something at the plenary session.More items...•

Are you in the same room during mediation?

Many people like the idea of saving time and money by taking their legal case to mediation, but they cannot stand to be in the same room as the other person. Mediation can be done with both parties in the same room, or with the parties separated and the mediator going back and forth between them.

What should you not say during mediation?

Don't rule out all opening statements because you have had bad experiences with them before. Think about whether there is anything either side could say that would be productive. Avoid saying alienating things, and say difficult things in the least alienating way possible.

How do narcissists prepare for mediation?

How to Reach a Custody Agreement with a NarcissistContact a good lawyer familiar with narcissistic behavior.Limit contact with your ex as much as possible, ideally only communicating during the mediation process. ... Avoid playing the game, if at all possible.Remain as calm as you can. ... Document everything.

What are the 5 steps of mediation?

of the dispute.Stage One: Convening The Mediation.Stage Two: Opening Session.Stage Three: Communication.Stage Four: The Negotiation.Stage Five: Closure.

Can mediation be done separately?

Mediation is a voluntary process where you and your former partner have discussions (which are usually face-to-face but you can ask to be in a separate room from your husband/former partner) with the help of a trained mediator and try to reach your own agreements.