If you or your ex have a mental health issue, whether currently or in the past, you should tell your attorney. If the issue is being addressed with a health care provider, it will likely not be a factor. However, if a party is not receiving treatment, it could affect a parenting time order.
You may or may not be able to stop the other parent's significant other from being around your child. In general, you do not have the power to dictate which adults are around your child when they are with the other parent.
If you set a date and your ex fails to let you pick up your belongings, you will need to request an order from the court in order to get your personal property back.
Under the laws of all states in this country your "ex" cannot preclude you from moving in with your boyfriend. You have the right to reside with whomever. He could make issues with respect to custody of your child due to your living arrangements but such does not impact upon whether or not you are a fit parent.
I'm often asked if there is a way for a parent to stop their child spending time with the other parent's new partner. The short answer is no. Both parents have parental responsibility and they are able to exercise that responsibility in whatever way they see fit.
In malicious parent syndrome, one parent attempts to punish the other parent and can even go too far to harm or deprive their children of the other parent by placing the other parent in a bad light.
Local law enforcement may provide standby services in which they provide a police escort to assist with the retrieval of property. This service may be offered through the sheriff's department or police department. The police escort the defendant to the property.
No she can't, but there is a fine and unmarked line between leaving your stuff there until you can pick it up and abandoning it (which may allow her to dispose of it legally) You should make immediate arrangements to pick it up, giving her fair and reasonable written notice.
Depending on where you live, an ex can be given from 30-60 days to retrieve their belongings. While 30 days should be considered a minimum deadline, you should not set a deadline for less than 30 days. This is considered to be ample time for an ex to remove their possessions.
Do I have the right to know where my child is during visitation? Yes — if you have a custody order specifying that parents must disclose the child's whereabouts during their visitation time. It's a violation of the order if a parent refuses to reveal the child's location.
The Reigning King of What Can Be Used Against You in a Custody Battle: Verbal or Physical Altercations. We wanted to start with the most simple pitfall to avoid: When tempers get high, it's quite alluring to get into a verbal sparring match with your ex-spouse.
Background check on ex new partner It is possible to go to your local police station and ask them to check if your ex's new partner has a record of sexual offences. A private investigator is another way of doing a background check on an ex's new partner.
LinkedIn. It’s all about telling people about your history, after all, so you should be able to learn what education and career stuff have been happening in your ex’s life since your breakup. LinkedIn will probably also deliver an up to date email address – IF your ex is on LinkedIn, that is, and only if you don’t mind that LinkedIn will tell them that you checked them out.
ZabaSearch. ZabaSearch is a little creepy because it really does tell you every listed and unlisted phone number and address for your ex (and everyone else). It’ll enable you to at least try to call them or to Google maps stalk their home, which we don’t recommend.
Wink. Wink saves you time searching for every social media channel individually by scanning for your ex’s name across almost every network.
TruthFinder is easy to use and reliable with clear reports and an Android-only mobile app. One month costs $27.78 and three months costs $69.07 per month for unlimited standard reports. A reverse phone lookup plan comes to under $2 per month.
An online background check scans public records and social media channels to bring up real, reliable, and useful information about your ex (and anyone else, for that matter). You can discover:
Your ex’s Facebook profile can tell you which town they’re living in, their current job position, and even what they ate for dinner if they’re the type to share that information.
A basic search from InstantCheckmate will tell you about your ex’s criminal records, marriage and divorce records, social media accounts, and known relatives. A premium search adds details about civil court judgments, weapons permits, bankruptcies, and voter registration information. You can run InstantCheckmate easily from the website or the Android mobile app.
Unless someone has a very unique name, you’ll be wading through hordes of similar results. There’s always a chance they don’t have social media accounts, or at least not the ones you’re looking under.
Users can enjoy anonymity when they use Kiwi to search for people. You may decide not to try and contact your ex once you’ve learned more about their situation. If that’s the case, you need not worry about them finding out. They will never be notified in any way of your search.
Contact your ex-husband's acquaintances. If you are feeling brave, try reaching out to people close to your ex-husband. The drawback to this is if the contacts do not wish to relinquish any private information about your ex-husband's private affairs. You may find that they are loyal to him and may not wish to get involved by telling you anything. Check his social media pages too, as he may list his employer or share posts with details about his job.
If you have not already done so, it may be a wise decision to seek out and retain the services of a qualified legal consultant such as an attorney. An attorney can use legal means to find out specific information about your ex-husband's employment. This ensures that you are not placing yourself in harm's way or jeopardizing yourself for the sake of gathering information about his possible employment.
The private investigator may follow your ex-husband from his new residence in attempt to prove that he is traveling to his job.
Attorneys have access to information that the public often does not. They are able to check databases to obtain information such as tax records and financial background and history. In some cases the attorney can even gather banking information as well as information pertaining to your ex-husband's bills. An attorney also may be able to get in touch directly with your ex-husband's employer.
Private investigators can place a global positioning software tracker on your ex-husband's vehicle as well to see where he is going during the day. Much like an attorney, a private investigator will often times have access to certain databases that the public does not to obtain work records or paycheck history.